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a family builds a life after Katrina
What really
Fmatters still
remains
By LAURA HENSLEY
Eagle Staff Writer
nn Kwasniak flipped through a
stack of slightly rumpled photo-
graphs that show smiling, early
orning faces happily celebrating
Christmas a few years ago. Her
daughters, still in their pajamas, held
up gifts for the camera. Her son posed
Christmas has always been special
for Kwasniak and her family, but
these photos are the only tangible
things left of their Christmases past.
Everything else — favorite orna-
ments and other photographs, along
with the entire contents of their home
— was washed away by Hurricane
Katrina nearly four months ago.
Kwasniak thought her mentally dis-
Eagle photo /Dave McDermand
Ann and John Kwasniak (standing, left and right)
and their family are making a new life in Bryan.
Eagle photo
Paul Zoeller
vacuees enjoy holiday traditions in their new Bryan home
Anna Silcio
(center) thanks
Nan Reichel
(left) and Ann
Fleischer of
Peace Lutheran
Church for her
gifts Friday at
her home in
Bryan. Silcio
and her family
were rescued
from their
Louisiana home
after Hurricane
Katrina and
now live in
Bryan.
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and Desiree Silcio, 27 — could've been
swept away with the storm, too. She
was fearful that the fragile women,
both of whom are severely autistic,
were going to die as the family strug-
gled in the heat and filth to survive
the devastating flood that rocked their
neighborhood in Louisiana's St.
Bernard Parish.
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abled daughters - A nna Silcio 25,
"I wasn't going to let this
storm take them away from
me," Kwasniak said. "It took
everything else, but not
them."
Kwasniak's family opted to
ride out the Aug. 29 storm
because it is difficult to travel
with the daughters, who func
Lion on the levels of children
3etween 3 and 8 years old.
They were caught at their
:come when the floodwaters
-ose 10 feet in 10 minutes.
Barefoot and in pajamas, the
'amily had only enough time
:o grab a medicine bag and
:heir pet dog, Sweets, before
scrambling up a ladder and
nto a cramped crawl space.
Cwasniak's husband, John,
:hen broke a hole in the roof
with a hammer so they could
escape to the top.
The family eventually was
spotted by neighbors in a flat -
bottom boat who tossed them
hot sodas and snacks scav-
enged from local shops.
"They all thought we were
going to die," Kwasniak said
of her two daughters and son
Michael Silcio, who has bipo-
lar disorder. "They didn't
understand what was going
on. I just kept telling them,
`Mama loves you. Marna will
always love you."
The family spent two nights
on their rooftop and inside a
neighbor's attic before they
were snatched up by a Coast
Guard helicopter.
"I saw the Coast Guard man
and, in my delirium, I thought
it was Jesus coming to get us,"
Kwasniak said.
One by one, the family and
their dog were plucked from
the rooftop. The helicopter
dropped them off at a crum-
bled levee near their home.
From there the family trav-
eled in a dump truck, a ferry
and a bus, eventually winding
up at Houston's Astrodome.
Confused, shaken and
weary, the family was spotted
there by members of Mosaic, a
nonprofit organization that
helps people with developmen-
tal disabilities. The group,
searching the dome for people
to help, convinced the family
that a shelter wasn't the best
place for them and brought
them to Brazos County.
"The average person has a
hard time with all of this, so
you could imagine how hard it
was for them," said Danyeal
Grays, executive director of
Mosaic in Bryan. "They need-
ed mental space and to get
tled as soon as possible. W
told them, `We've got to get
you out of here. "'
Kwasniak said explainin
the devastation of the storm to
her daughters has been nearly
impossible.
"They just know the water
took everything away," she
said. "It took everything they
ever knew."
Now the family is trying to
make a new life, living rent -
free in a donated four -bed-
room house in Bryan that
once was a Mosaic group
home.
The house has been filled
with Christmas cheer. A tree
stands in the corner. Stock-
ings hang above the fireplace.
Members of Peace Lutheran
Church in College Station
have donated furniture, deco-
rations and other items. They
even dropped off Christmas
gifts for the family
"It's so homey and nice,"
Kwasniak said. "We are going
to have Christmas like we've
always had it."
Christmas at the Kwasni-
aks' is a perpetual celebration
of innocence, faith and family.
"They will believe in Santa
Claus until the day they die,"
Kwasniak said about her
daughters.
She is quick to produce two
new photographs recently
taken of her daughters sitting
atop Santa Claus' lap and two
"Dear Santa" letters they
wrote this year.
"They love Christmas," she
said. "It's a special time for al
of us."
This year has been tough fo
the family, but Kwasniak said
she is determined to make a
new start in their new home.
Returning to Louisiana is not
an option, she said.
"We're going to be OK and
get back on our feet," she said
"We want everyone to know
how grateful we are for every-
thing."