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by Marguerite Anthony
MARY BOLTON ECKLES
It is a hot day. A "working into summer" kind of day and sipping glasses of ice tea with
Mary Bolton Eckles is a pleasant way to spend an afternoon.
Mary is one of those rare creatures; a native of the campus of Texas A &M. She was born
to Frank C. and Lura Bolton shortly after her father joined the faculty following his transfer
from the University of Mississippi in 1909. (Dr. Razor of Bryan drone in by buggy to
attend her birth.) Her father served the University as professor, Dean of Engineering, and
President.
A young man in the Aggieland Band, Col. Bill E. Eckles, persuaded her to marry him
and after worldwide travels, they returned to College Station for Bill to serve on the
faculty. They reside at 1212 Orr in College Station and are the parents of two sons, Frank
and Jim. Jim is a graduate student at A &M and his wife, Ann Marie, is the assistant
director of A &M Presbyterian Day Care Center. Mary, Bill, and their children are active
contributors to the community, and grandson Eric gives the appearance of being a fellow
that Coach Wilson will want to meet in fifteen years.. it's all in the family tradition, of being
a part of Bryan - College Station.
wasn't even a place where people could treshen i
al up before the football games. Even the
restrooms available at Kyle Field last fall were
better than none at all.
1 """... have fifteen or twenty —at least 20 special trains
that brought the people in for ballgames and
11/ R . ' then they left right after the game. At
Thanksgiving, for the big game, Mother would
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� ri 4 feed 40 at noon for a big Thanksgiving dinner
before they went to the ball game and have
"` t� -� sandwiches for them after the game before they
left. 1 wonder how she managed this, even with
the extra help that we would have for the
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, occasion.
Si 1 can recall so well what it was like when the
trains came in to the station. They were just
Mary Bolton Eckles lovely passenger trains and they came from
Dallas, Fort Worth, Houston, San Antonio, and
"As I was driving down Glade Street towards everywhere bringing people to A &M. The
Southwest Pkwy. a few days ago, I noticed that people got off, went to the ballgame, and got
there is a new roof on the old home across from back on to go home after the game. To hear
South Knoll Elementary in which I grew up. them tooting; people running up and down - it
Actually, I was born down the street from it was just very exciting. It was like a fair and was
when it was on campus but we moved into that lots of fun. Then, too, we took special trains
house in 1918 and I was delighted to see that it when we went to Dallas or Fort Worth for the
was being renovated. 1 have the loveliest games and took the whole corps.
memories associated with that house. It was The A &M campus was just a little community
always full of people— ALWAYS. As you of its own and there were no stores. All of the
know, in the early days there were no facilities houses were owned by the state and were
for people to stay overnight in College Station. located on campus across from Rudder tower in
In fact there was no College Station and the vicinity of its parking lot. Mother telephoned
16 everyone lived on the A &M campus. There coned on pg. 27
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cunt d from pg. to pool in the basement of the YMCA building.
the grocery order into Reids Grocery in Bryan in Our mothers took naps in the afternoon so we'd
the morning and they delivered it in the all go to the pool and that's where we spent our
afternoon. afternoons.
There were many children my age living Actually, where I learned to swim was out at
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around me and we had a very nice time. We all the fish tank. You may never have heard of it
gathered and walked down the street to catch
the trolley into Bryan for school. Until 1920, but it's out where the reactor is now. Everybody
went there for picnics and they went in a horse
there was no public school in College Station and buggy. They spent the day and everybody
and so, we had to go into Bryan. We walked to went swimming. I was taught to swim in that
SBISA Hall to catch the 'Toonerville Trolley'. It tank and it's still there. 1 haven't seen it in years
but it is still there.
"The A &M campus was just a little I left College Station in 1928 when I married
community of its own and there were William E. Eckles. I lived at home for two years
no stores. All of the houses were during WWII and came back for several
owned by the state and were located summers when my husband was working on his
master's degree. I worked in the government
on campus across from Rudder Tower program for cotton to help pay for his degree
in the vicinity of its parking lot." and 1 got $2.63 for eight hours work a day. All
of the salaries had been cut terribly because of
was fun to ride on it but, it go old too. And, of the depression and people were being paid in
course, when I was a child I had malaria as so script instead of money. If you could afford it.
many did. I would go to school early in the you could hold your pay check, but few could
morning feeling all right and by the middle of afford to do this during the depression. When
the day, 1'd have a temperature of 105 °. They you cashed the check, it was discounted
didn't have nurses or anything at the school. heavily. If you taught school and were on a nine
They did have a little place called the arbor; just month pay scale, you certainly felt the lack of
a place outside where you could eat your lunch. money.
They would send you out there and you would When my father was president of A &M. and
sit with this high temperature until some one all through his association with the university. I
could come to get you. I do recall that malaria had occasions to meet many interesting people.
would come on quickly and you would have to Once 1 had a chance to meet the oldest living
take quinine for it. There were so many five star general, Omar Bradley, when he was a
mosquitoes in the area. house guest. General Dwight Eisenhower was
College Station has grown but I can recall also a house guest. 1 came home from Fort
several folks that were around then. Virginia Leavenworth to be a hostess for his visit.
S Burns Abbott lived across the street from me
and we would ride our tricycles together. There
The entertainment was very formal and no
liquor was served. People were invited to be
were the Waltons who were Mr. Hershel there at six o'clock so you arrived at six o'clock.
Burgess' parents. Ethyl Burgess and l shared At 6:05. you sat down at the dinner table.
many summer afternoon adventures and also In the earlier days. people dressed up more
walked to school together. than they do now days. The men were splendid
During WWI, my father had charge of in tuxedoes and the women -had lovely gowns.
training soldiers for the signal corps. To a child, I remember how much everyone enjoyed the
that was very exciting because we had a special dances and how everyone went to them. They
telephone in the house that was just for were heavily.chaperoned. All of the faculty
messages regarding the war effort. I mean it was wives and chaperones of the dances sat around
just for officials and officers to call him on. It was the edge of the dance floor. They were held in
like living on an army post at that time. Much of SBISA Hall in the front which was a great big
the faculty was serving their country in some dance hall. At least. it was a dance hall when
way and the majority of the students would go they weren't eating in it.
into the services. Anyhow, my father was over On Saturday nights, we had our Saturday
the program for training them. night dances and nobody went home for the
1 have no real memories of 4th of July week -end. Everybody was on campus and
celebrations - not the red, white, and blue everybody came to the dance. We had
bunting kind of memories. Summer school was programs, dance cards that were filled out for
very small and at the end of the spring semester, Friday night dances so you always knew who
everyone just hibernated because it got so hot. you would be dancing with next. 1 don't think
We didn't do anything until September when we had programs on Saturday night because
school started again. Of course, children played that was just a 'cut -in' dance.
out in the afternoons. There was a swimming cons d on pg. 30 27
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For the big Thanksgiving Dance after the
game, we had name bands and they were
always name bands that were very good ones.
The Aggieland Band played for the Saturday
ASSAY night dances.
411 The big RV dance in the spring lasted
Thursday, Friday, and Saturday. I'll 'go back
and tell you that there was no place for anybody
to stay on campus so the students would ask, if '
8 1 they knew us, or happened to be in my father's
� ��A classes, if their girls could stay with us. We were
d i•V \ always glad to have them and we had many of
l e a ‘1
� them every weekend.
When 1 was a young lady and going to the
, dances myself, I always enjoyed the
intermissions. They were held at twelve o'clock
and one of the mothers would fix sandwiches
and drinks. Everybody that had been invited
� , � would come with us as we strolled from SBISA
back down to the campus homes. Nobody had
a car in those days. We would all walk together,
St - V - have our refreshments, and go back to the
dance. Occassionally, someone would have a
drink but they were frowned upon and they
weren't considered to be good students. They
Male weren't considered to be the ones you went
with.
In my day, the girls were dressed in short
Female dresses. At least, they were short in front and
longer in back, but they were just beautiful. Oh,
Escorts the dresses were just lovely. The girls would
Available come from all over the state for these dances
and they just dressed beautifully. They dressed
up then, you know. The little girls nowadays
don't go in for that like they used to do. It was
very exciting.
1 recall a rather ususual experience that 1 had
Hourly, when I brought home four girls for one of the
DallB, RV dances. The house was crowded with folks
staying with us and we had all of our new
Evening, evening clothes hanging everywhere - When I
got ready to go back to college I couldn't find
or my clothes. We searched and searched to no
Weekend Rates avail. We had a lot of extra help in the house so
we just decided, well —those gowns just weren't
there. They were gone. Finally, somebody
thought to ask my little brother who was about
five or six at the time. 'Oh,' he exclaimed, 'Yes,
nobody asked me where they were. Billy and 1
775-1923 were playing with them out on the roof and they
are still there!' They'd been on the roof all night.
It was very upsetting, but thank goodness, it
hadn't rained. The dresses were all right even
though they had been on the roof all night.
Passersby must have thought some interesting
Mon. - Fri. 12pm - 12am things if they noticed the dresses spread about
on the roof. That would be the roof of the old
Open for business July 5 house across from South Knoll Elementary.
808 South Main, Bryan Every time 1 pass that house I'll envision those
beautiful party dresses lying upon the roof."